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I strongly believe that understanding is more important than love, especially when it comes to parenting and intimate relationships. As a psychologist for more than twenty years I can tell you that I have never had an adult looking back at her childhood a
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I strongly believe that understanding is more important than love, especially when it comes to parenting and intimate relationships. As a psychologist for more than twenty years I can tell you that I have never had an adult looking back at her childhood and complaining that her parents were too understanding. And similarly, I have met many divorced people who still love each other but yet they never really understood each other. The painful reality is that love is just not enough. I"ll admit that there are people who I love and who I still need to better understand. I hope I"ll continue my work to understand them. The willingness to understand is very important. It is not always easy, but healthy love is strengthened by the willingness to understand. Love without understanding will wilt like flowers without water. Our egos are what seem to get in the way of understanding those who we love and care about. Often it is our need to be right that makes what others think and feel so wrong for us. I have certainly been quite guilty of this in some of my relationships. As I have written repeatedly in my books, empathy, is truly the emotional glue that holds all close relationships together. Empathy allows us to slow down and try to walk in the shoes of those we love. The deeper our empathy, the deeper—and healthier—our love. Not all relationships are meant to be. Yet all relationships that are meant to flourish in a healthy way, must stress understanding just as much, if not more, than love.Why are we unable to understand the others sometimes
- A、Because we are caring the others too much.
- B、Because it is quite difficult to understand the others.
- C、Because we believe we are always right.
- D、Because the others have done something wrong.
相似问题和答案
第1题：
A、between
B、with
C、for
D、at
第2题：
are. I’m looking forward to meet you here so that I can tell 85. ___________
you more about Chinese food at table.
Best wishes.
Jin
85.meeting
you more about Chinese food at table.
Best wishes.
Jin
第3题：
Hi, Sharon, I've only got 10 days left in England. Can you believe I've already been here for a year? There's so much to do before I leave! I really must buy presents for my English friends to thank them for all their help. I have to move out of my room on Friday because Franco has got another tenant. At least I don't have to find somewhere else to live. I'm going to spend a few days with friends. He is letting the whole flat because Mary is moving just before her marriage. The time has gone so quickly. I cannot believe that I've been here for a whole year. And I must start packing too - I have bought a lot since I came, and I need another suitcase. I'll give some things to charity shops I think. Anyway, I'm really writing to say that I'll be back in Shanghai on the 27 April, and it would be great to see you to catch up on all our news. I'll phone as soon as I get back How are things with you?Love Xiaoyan
(1). When will Xiaoyan leave England?A
A、month later.
B、10 days later.
C、A year later.
(2). Where will Xiaoyan live after moving out?
A、 She will stay in her friends' place.
B、She will be on the plane to Shanghai.
C、She will have to find a hotel to live in.
(3). What will happen to Franco's flat when Xiaoyan and Mary move out?
A、 It will be sold at a good price.
B、It will be rented to other people.
C、It will be kept for Xiaoyan when she comes back.
(4). Why does Xiaoyan need another suitcase?
A、 She has got more things than she came with.
B、Her old suitcase is broken.
C、She has to give things to charity shops.
(5). What would Xiaoyan most possibly do when she sees her friend Sharon?
A、 To ask Sharon to show her around Shanghai.
B、To talk about what happened to them recently.
C、To show Sharon her new clothes.
第4题：
A.I have not done this yet.
B.Less than 6 months
C.More than 6 months but less than 1 year
D.1-2 years
E.2-3 years
F.More than 3 years
第5题：
I()in the company for more than ten years.
A. work
B. have worked
C. worked
第6题：
I never thought of this as a real problem, but now I realize how it bothered me more than it
A． would
B． used to
C． preferred to
D． had to
本题考查的would的用法。woutd最常见的一个用法是用来表示一设想事情的结果，在此题中即是这个用法。题干意思是：“我从来都没有把它当作一个真正的问题，但是现在我已经意识到它对我的影响是多么的大。”
第7题：
I started my teaching career at the school. That was more than twenty years ago, and I _____ there ever since.
A. was
B. had been
C. will be
D. have been
第8题：
A、years
B、months
C、seasons
D、weeks
第9题：
Auntil
Bafter
Cbefore
Dwhen
第10题：
I grew up seeing handwritten notes as the best expression of love. My room often 16 small, square papers on the bed for me to find. Sometimes it was just a smiley 17 , other times she simply wrote the words "love you" 18 ordinary ballpoint pen, but it was more than enough.
Starting in elementary school, my mom 19 me to write notes to my grandma who lived a few hours away. Grandma 20 wrote back. The excitement I felt when I looked in the 21 and saw a letter in my grandma′s shaky letters never 22 . By studying her handwriting, I could almost 23 how she′ d been feeling that day. Those notes are now treasures.
The words, "You make me 24 ," from my dad when I got my first prize and birthday notes from friends are all lifelines I can′ t bear to 25 .
However, my greatest lifelines came from my daughter, Avery. One day I put a yellow note on her 26 not realizing there was a blank one 27 to it. When I cleaned out her lunch box that night, the number of my notes had 28 . I cried when I saw she′d written the same thing as me.
"I love you. Avery."
I reached up and stuck my daughter′ s 29 on the cabinet where the sandwich bread was stored as a source of daily 30 . Then later another in my clothes closet where I got 31 , and another on the bathroom mirror where I brushed my 32 .
"I love you. I will .love you for my whole life."
Until today my daughter still 33 posts lifelines to me. Now they are not so much for encouragement 34 they are reminders--reminders that time is flying.
Because the untraditional spelling has become 35 , letters are no longer gigantic, but rather small and dainty (优美的). But the love, the love is still there.
第（20）题选
B.always
C.gradually
D.never