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单选题I strongly believe that understanding is more important than love, especially when it comes to parenting and intimate relationships. As a psychologist for more than twenty years I can tell you that I have never had an adult looking back at her childhoo

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I strongly believe that understanding is more important than love, especially when it comes to parenting and intimate relationships. As a psychologist for more than twenty years I can tell you that I have never had an adult looking back at her childhood and complaining that her parents were too understanding. And similarly, I have met many divorced people who still love each other but yet they never really understood each other. The painful reality is that love is just not enough. I"ll admit that there are people who I love and who I still need to better understand. I hope I"ll continue my work to understand them. The willingness to understand is very important. It is not always easy, but healthy love is strengthened by the willingness to understand. Love without understanding will wilt like flowers without water. Our egos are what seem to get in the way of understanding those who we love and care about. Often it is our need to be right that makes what others think and feel so wrong for us. I have certainly been quite guilty of this in some of my relationships. As I have written repeatedly in my books, empathy, is truly the emotional glue that holds all close relationships together. Empathy allows us to slow down and try to walk in the shoes of those we love. The deeper our empathy, the deeper—and healthier—our love. Not all relationships are meant to be. Yet all relationships that are meant to flourish in a healthy way, must stress understanding just as much, if not more, than love.If we are to understand our partners, we should firstly （）.
A

have willingness to do so

B

have love for them

C

get into connection with them

D

care about them

参考答案和解析
正确答案： A
解析： [解析] 事实细节题。题干的大意是：如果要理解我们的同伴，我们首先应该______。从文章第二段第四、五句可知，有理解的意愿是首要的，故选A。
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第1题：

You can have days ______ more or fewer than twenty－four hours,

A、between

B、with

C、for

D、at


标准答案:B

第2题：

are. I’m looking forward to meet you here so that I can tell 85. ___________

you more about Chinese food at table.

Best wishes.

Jin


正确答案：
85.meeting
you more about Chinese food at table. 
Best wishes.
  Jin

第3题：

Hi, Sharon, I've only got 10 days left in England. Can you believe I've already been here for a year? There's so much to do before I leave! I really must buy presents for my English friends to thank them for all their help. I have to move out of my room on Friday because Franco has got another tenant. At least I don't have to find somewhere else to live. I'm going to spend a few days with friends. He is letting the whole flat because Mary is moving just before her marriage. The time has gone so quickly. I cannot believe that I've been here for a whole year. And I must start packing too - I have bought a lot since I came, and I need another suitcase. I'll give some things to charity shops I think. Anyway, I'm really writing to say that I'll be back in Shanghai on the 27 April, and it would be great to see you to catch up on all our news. I'll phone as soon as I get back How are things with you?Love Xiaoyan

(1). When will Xiaoyan leave England?A

A、month later.

B、10 days later.

C、A year later.

(2). Where will Xiaoyan live after moving out?

A、 She will stay in her friends' place.

B、She will be on the plane to Shanghai.

C、She will have to find a hotel to live in.

(3). What will happen to Franco's flat when Xiaoyan and Mary move out?

A、 It will be sold at a good price.

B、It will be rented to other people.

C、It will be kept for Xiaoyan when she comes back.

(4). Why does Xiaoyan need another suitcase?

A、 She has got more things than she came with.

B、Her old suitcase is broken.

C、She has to give things to charity shops.

(5). What would Xiaoyan most possibly do when she sees her friend Sharon?

A、 To ask Sharon to show her around Shanghai.

B、To talk about what happened to them recently.

C、To show Sharon her new clothes.


参考答案：BABAB

第4题：

Years ago,a cigarette commercial asked if you were smoking more,but enjoying it less．That describes the way many of us live today．We are doing more,but enjoying it less．And when that doesn't work,we get the problem．In our extremely hurried search for satisfaction,we try stuffing still more into our days,never realizing that we are taking the wrong approach.
The truth is simple;so simple it is hard to believe．Satisfaction lies with less,not with more．Yet,we pursue the myth that this thing,or that activity,will somehow provide the satisfaction we so desperately seek.
Arthur Lindman,in his very effective book,"The Harried Leisure Class,"described the uselessness of pursuing more．His research focused on what people did with their leisure time．He found that as income rose,people bought more things to occupy their leisure time．But,ironically,the more things they bought,the less they valued any one of them．Carried to an extreme,he predicted massive boredom in the midst of tremendous variety．That was more than twenty years ago,and his prediction seems more accurate every year.
Lindman of course,is not the first to discover this．The writer of Ecclesiastes expressed the same thought thousands of years ago．It is better,he wrote,to have less,but enjoy it more.
If you would like to enjoy life more,I challenge you to experiment with me．How could you simplify your life?What could you drop?What could you do without?What could you stop pursuing?What few things could you concentrate on?
The more I learn,the more I realize that fullness of life does not depend on things．The more I give up,the more I seem to gain．But words will never convince you．You must try it for yourself．

Lindman wrote his book__.

A.ten years ago
B.twenty years ago
C.more than twenty years ago
D.thousands of years ago

答案：C
解析：
第三段最后。Arthur Lind man预言，巨大的无聊存在于极度的丰富之中。而这还是20多年前的预言，并且，他的预言越来越准确。选项D是第四段中另一本书的时间。

第5题：

I()in the company for more than ten years.

A. work

B. have worked

C. worked


参考答案：B

第6题：

I never thought of this as a real problem, but now I realize how it bothered me more than it

A． would

B． used to

C． preferred to

D． had to


正确答案：A
本题考查的would的用法。woutd最常见的一个用法是用来表示一设想事情的结果，在此题中即是这个用法。题干意思是：“我从来都没有把它当作一个真正的问题，但是现在我已经意识到它对我的影响是多么的大。”

第7题：

I started my teaching career at the school. That was more than twenty years ago, and I _____ there ever since.

A. was

B. had been

C. will be

D. have been


参考答案： D

第8题：

You can have days with more or fewer than twenty－four hours, and ______ with more or fewer than seven days.

A、years

B、months

C、seasons

D、weeks


标准答案:D

第9题：

How many years of experience do you have with deploying and maintaining a virtualization infrastructure using Microsoft desktop or server virtualization technologies?()

A.I have not done this yet.

B.Less than 6 months

C.More than 6 months but less than 1 year

D.1-2 years

E.2-3 years

F.More than 3 years


参考答案：A

第10题：

Years ago,a cigarette commercial asked if you were smoking more,but enjoying it less．That describes the way many of us live today．We are doing more,but enjoying it less．And when that doesn't work,we get the problem．In our extremely hurried search for satisfaction,we try stuffing still more into our days,never realizing that we are taking the wrong approach.
The truth is simple;so simple it is hard to believe．Satisfaction lies with less,not with more．Yet,we pursue the myth that this thing,or that activity,will somehow provide the satisfaction we so desperately seek.
Arthur Lindman,in his very effective book,"The Harried Leisure Class,"described the uselessness of pursuing more．His research focused on what people did with their leisure time．He found that as income rose,people bought more things to occupy their leisure time．But,ironically,the more things they bought,the less they valued any one of them．Carried to an extreme,he predicted massive boredom in the midst of tremendous variety．That was more than twenty years ago,and his prediction seems more accurate every year.
Lindman of course,is not the first to discover this．The writer of Ecclesiastes expressed the same thought thousands of years ago．It is better,he wrote,to have less,but enjoy it more.
If you would like to enjoy life more,I challenge you to experiment with me．How could you simplify your life?What could you drop?What could you do without?What could you stop pursuing?What few things could you concentrate on?
The more I learn,the more I realize that fullness of life does not depend on things．The more I give up,the more I seem to gain．But words will never convince you．You must try it for yourself．

We can make our life happier if we__.

A.get rid of useless things
B.buy more things
C.sell things we do not need
D.give up more

答案：D
解析：
通篇都在讲我们做得越多、获得的越多，我们就越不满足。所以应当学会放弃。

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